tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4760134077739485292.post8919462111021765066..comments2023-04-13T02:22:18.693-07:00Comments on Hope, Interrupted: rainbow 4.16.12sarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15316131078833658090noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4760134077739485292.post-28420436050965004092012-05-02T05:04:06.897-07:002012-05-02T05:04:06.897-07:00Yes, we have not fully setup nursery space for B, ...Yes, we have not fully setup nursery space for B, either. I have been thinking about that lately - that before L and Micah were born everything was done, but before B was born we washed clothes and brought out the cradle and that was pretty much it. I really need to get on with fixing her a space in our home. <br /><br />Writing to Owen regularly will be so good for you, too, because as time Jennhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16614232173945249682noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4760134077739485292.post-75122477329628704062012-04-22T13:58:03.091-07:002012-04-22T13:58:03.091-07:00Just thinking of you.Just thinking of you.Renelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08490888250385942221noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4760134077739485292.post-27567200195693050232012-04-18T14:07:43.594-07:002012-04-18T14:07:43.594-07:00I love you beautiful mama.
xoxo
RodeoI love you beautiful mama.<br /><br />xoxo<br />RodeoSarahhttp://recoveryrodeo.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4760134077739485292.post-65337073943626859562012-04-17T16:19:09.077-07:002012-04-17T16:19:09.077-07:00This is beautiful: "My words to Owen are ever...This is beautiful: "My words to Owen are ever changing, reflecting the crazy trajectory of both his learning curve and growth, and my own. Underneath both sets of words is the same ferocious love that a mama has for her babies, of course. But somehow that's not much consolation today..."<br /><br />I totally understand how you feel.briannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03703767053224975771noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4760134077739485292.post-58410743734244317302012-04-17T14:18:50.590-07:002012-04-17T14:18:50.590-07:00Hugs and love my friend...Hugs and love my friend...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4760134077739485292.post-56942566772246238522012-04-17T05:33:04.758-07:002012-04-17T05:33:04.758-07:00what a great idea of writing to Owen.
i understan...what a great idea of writing to Owen.<br /><br />i understand how you feel. it really is hard to parent after a loss. but i think slowly our hearts start to open to the possibility that our rainbows are here to help us, and to stay. i pray everyday that i start to believe that.Tiffanyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17906643480459302192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4760134077739485292.post-19386786431153248822012-04-17T03:24:56.582-07:002012-04-17T03:24:56.582-07:00Agree with all you've said and all the other w...Agree with all you've said and all the other wonderful commenters. Too tired to articulate any more than that, little miss not napping well, toddler driving me bonkers! <br />xoHope's Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04984543289642681339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4760134077739485292.post-36392820020304368972012-04-16T19:35:18.392-07:002012-04-16T19:35:18.392-07:00Yes. I love you. So beautiful in your mama-ingYes. I love you. So beautiful in your mama-ingæhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14449465426164797433noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4760134077739485292.post-35932029012250385692012-04-16T19:04:42.451-07:002012-04-16T19:04:42.451-07:00I love the idea of you writing to Owen regularly. ...I love the idea of you writing to Owen regularly. You were coping with so much grief and so much stress when Owen first arrived. You have no idea how happy it makes me feel to hear that he's cheerful, that you're feeling settled.<br /><br />And yes, to loving and missing Otis forever, on repeat. Oh how I wish our first babies were here.Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05946311309467296976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4760134077739485292.post-19351486644289935522012-04-16T18:45:23.192-07:002012-04-16T18:45:23.192-07:00The last part repetitive, stagnant: got me all cho...The last part repetitive, stagnant: got me all choked up: I miss you, I want you, I love you, I wish you were here...Oh goodness yes.<br /><br />It is so wonderful that you are in a good breathing space. It fills me with joy to know that you can love Owen and that it gives you more space to love Otis. How lovely.<br /><br />I know what you mean about this space being both Owen and Otis's Renelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08490888250385942221noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4760134077739485292.post-30107397259448554012012-04-16T18:02:57.124-07:002012-04-16T18:02:57.124-07:00After Matilda died for months I missed and imagine...After Matilda died for months I missed and imagined a tiny newborn in my arms. After Max was here I realised how quickly she would have changed and just how much more we had missed. It was hard. And yes once things calm down, suddenly there's more room for the grief and missing and longing to return. I remember more tears and grief when Max was about 3 months old. <br /><br />I blogged Maddiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15665878580598197034noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4760134077739485292.post-59198292309309686692012-04-16T12:30:07.853-07:002012-04-16T12:30:07.853-07:00I like your idea of writing letters to Owen very m...I like your idea of writing letters to Owen very much (whether you post them or not). Maybe - hopefully - I'll try that in the future, too.SGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10751681504123990038noreply@blogger.com